No, I’m not going to do a boy/girl scene, now or ever. My tongue was planted was so firmly in my cheek when I wrote that blog post that I got bruises.

So breathe a sigh of relief, or dash your hopes, or whatever and enjoy the rest of your day.

I have a big announcement to make. I’m totally going to be doing my first boy/girl scene. I know I’ve said throughout my entire career that I’m gay, and I don’t want to fuck guys, but I’ve totally changed my mind. Women’s sexuality is fluid and all that. I’ve just been going theough a phase. A really long phase. Besides, all my friends are doing it and I don’t want to be left out of the cool kids club.

Since I can remember, dudes have always told me that I just needed to find the right dick to cure me of my unfortunate lesbianism. Well, thanks to the hundreds of unsolicited pictures I’ve received over the years, I finally have! I don’t know what the face looks like yet, but who really cares, right?

I’m going to be shooting my first BG for Combat Zone (the boy/girl wing of Filly Films) in the near future. Check your calendar, it’ll come to ya.

I’m so looking forward to not being “technically a virgin” anymore.

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I really want to shoot for SweetHeart Video, and I need your help. I’ve made it to round 3 of the “MileHighMadness” tournament, and I want to win this round too! The tournament pits different pairings against each other, and the winning pairing gets a scene and the boxcover for a new movie.

I’m paired with Nina Hartley for the content. Normally, I’m not really into older/younger stuff, but Nina’s a legend and I think it would be fun to shoot with her…maybe she can even teach me a new trick or two.

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The film seemed to go over really well with the audience – we got a ton of laughs – and we had a great time talking to other filmmakers and people who had enjoyed the film. If you’d like to see Cuddle, keep an eye on my twitter…we have more screenings coming up!

If you’ve seen any of my recent movies as a director, you’ve seen Pepper. I just love her energy and her professionalism (not to mention her tight body, pretty face and gorgeous red hair) and she has never done a less than awesome scene for me.

I met Pepper briefly at AVN 2012, but I didn’t really get to know her until we both worked on Annabelle Lee’s directorial debut, Lesbian Lawyers. I was behind the camera, and Pepper was in front, doing a scene with Nina Hartley. I liked Pepper so much that I booked her for a scene for Homegrown video a couple days later. We shot this awesome POV strap-on scene – Pepper I just have fantastic chemistry.

I’ve featured Pepper in my movies too. She got down and dirty with me and 8 other girls in Lesbian Fuck Club. She plays Daisy Layne’s lover in Infidelity: A Love Story (which is one of the best scenes I’ve ever shot). She gets seduced by Michelle Lay in SugarMamas, and she’s the bookish erotic writer in my upcoming Red Hot Lesbians.

Plus, you can check her out right here at LilyCade.com. Pepper rocks!

I was thrilled to be a part of this movie.It was also great to see Elexis, who looks fantastic. She does need more surgery, which will impair her ability to perform for a while, but she does expect to be able to go back to shooting sex both behind and in front of the camera.

I was paired with one of my favorite girls, Aaliyah Love. I’ve worked with Aaliyah many times (you can see some of those times right here at lilycade.com) but never for a DVD scene with just the two of us. I love her energy, and her smile, and her sexy body. We just have great chemistry, and I was happy that for a project like this, that’s something more personal, I got to work with someone that I really like.

The movie was an edition of “Lesbian Sex” which means there was no story line, just an interview. I’m sort of wary of interviews, because I love to talk but sometimes I say things that I worry will come off wrong. In this edition of “things-I-worry-will-come-off-wrong” I mentioned that I “don’t care if you identify as…a monkey” and then had to back myself out of the hole I had dug. For the record, I do not want to have sex with monkeys, but am open to sex with human beings who identify as monkeys, even if I think that is silly (why yes, I do read too much @tumblrtxt on twitter…you should too).

Anyway, after the interview was over, I picked Aaliyah up (I love picking girls up) and took her to the bedroom where we went at it hard. I fucked her with my strap-on, she ate me out with a vengeance, we got sweaty and messy and wore each other out. It was just a stellar scene.

I hope you’ll all check out this movie when it comes out. The other scenes are also great pairings: Sovereign Syre and Elle Alexandra, Samantha Ryan and Jessie Andrews and Zoey Holloway and Sinn Sage. (I’ve worked with all these girls except Jessie Andrews).

The film features one of my all time faves, Pepper Kester, as an aspiring erotica writer.

Pepper’s stories form erotic vignettes featuring an all redhead cast. First up, Marie McCray and I are celebrating our third anniversary. I give Marie a Calvin Klein purse (which, because I’m weird and obsessive about details I bought from and then returned to Macy’s because I wanted the purse to look expensive but did not need to own an expensive purse). She has a much better present for me: the amazingly sexy Elle Alexandra.

I think this scene is really visually striking, with three redheads in varying combinations of black and red lingerie and stockings. I had initially had a concept of having each of us in a different color, but I really like how this turned out.

Also, the sex was hot! If you know me, you know I love threesomes and group sex.

Pepper’s next fantasy involves Ashley Graham. Poor Ashley has decorated her house and invited her friends for her birthday party…but no one shows up. So instead of sitting alone in her house, she hires herself a stripper, Scarlett Fay.

At first, Scarlett won’t let Ashley touch as per strip club rules, but eventually she gives in the two get down to business.

As the sex winds down, Ashley realizes she has the date wrong…her birthday is tomorrow. Scarlett lets her know that she’d be happy to come back and entertain Ashley and her guests.

Last but not least, I’m back for another round, this time with Veronica Ricci. I’m Veronica’s sister in law, staying with her and her husband while I look for a job. I catch her swimming nude and can’t help but look (it was super cold when we shot this, but Veronica is game as fuck. I offered to move the shoot to the shower instead of the pool but she was down to freeze for art…don’t worry, I warmed her up).

I resist her advances, but not for long. When she tells me to shut up and fuck her I throw her down on the couch and have my way with her.

I really liked Veronica – great attitude and energy and a bangin’ body to boot.

As she finishes writing the last story, Pepper gets a phone call from Jodi Taylor. Jodi’s a young literary agent, interested in representing Pepper…and Pepper has a serious crush on her. Pepper agrees to meet with Jodi to show her the stories she’s been writing.

Jodi likes the stories…a lot…but she needs a few more to create a collection worthy of publishing. Pepper suggests a story about a writer and her agent, and Jodi is all to happy to help her “workshop” it.

This is my favorite scene in the movie, and a fitting ending. I’ve been wanting to pair Pepper and Jodi since I worked with Jodi on SugarMamas and it turned out every bit as hot as I hoped it would.

This is a fun little movie, especially if you like redheads (ok, if you don’t like redheads you won’t enjoy it, but then again I doubt you read my blog or watch my movies anyway if you’re a gingerphobe). It features some solid pairing, and every shade of red from Scarlett’s very dark auburn to Pepper’s light red to Marie McCray’s super bright do.

That was four years ago. Right now, Elexis is seriously ill. She has an infection in her jaw that is threatening her face and her life. She’s already had one surgery, but she needs more. She’s a single mom, and porn is her job – a job that’s pretty hard to do while you’re recovering from surgery on your face.

Here’s the thing about porn performers: we don’t have a safety net. We don’t have a union. We don’t get residuals. Many, many porn performers don’t have insurance. So when something like this happens, a performer is kind of on her own. Girlfriends has discussed making a movie to benefit Elexis, which I’ve offered to be a part of and which I hope happens. In the meantime, you can donate to Elexis through paypal. Her paypal email is elexis08@gmail.com

Alternatively, if you want to buy a signed copy of either Hard Working Girls or Live Nerd Girls for $25 I will donate the proceeds to Elexis’s surgery fund. Send me an email at lily@lilycade.com